What I learned about you from our first conversation, Tabitha?

What I learned about you from our first meeting?

Tabitha

One of the things I have made a goal to do is to write about people who mean a lot to me in my life.  I can think of several significant times in our relationship that were formative. One that has been on my mind the last while was the first time we met. I learned a lot about you that day at the SC State Fair.


First, you were approachable.  It impressed me how you introduced yourself and immediately started in conversation with me.  You put me at ease from the very start of our friendship.  


Second, you were confident in how you carried yourself.  You didn’t seem intimated by the environment and all the activity around us at the State Fair. 


Third, you were focused.  You gave me the feeling that you were totally focused on our conversation.  Since that time, I have had many conversations with you and each time I have felt that same way.  It is a great gift you give to people by the way you focus on the person.


Fourth, I was struck by your great intelligence.  I remember from our first words together, how I was interested in talking with you about areas of your study and interest.  You have always encouraged me to read, to study, and to write.  Just being around you and being friends with you has encouraged me to study and to learn.   


Fifth, I was grateful for your sense of humor.  I remember when you told me that you were working on your Ph.D.  I asked you, “Did you start college when you were ten years old?”  Looking back, that might not have been a great thing to say to start with, but I am thankful you were not offended.  Since that time, I have enjoyed your sense of humor greatly.  You have a joy that is contagious.


Then last, I was aware on our first meeting your deep faith in Christ.  I enjoyed that day talking with you about spiritual things.  I have been so enriched by your faith in Christ in our friendship.  You model what you say you believe.  You live it.  I saw it that day and I see it every time we talk.


I hope you can overlook the poor writing and hear my heart.  I just want you to know how much your friendship means to me and how I see you.